Our toughest critic is ourselves. We can be unforgiving, relentless, and mean when we are faced with daunting challenges. Negative self-talk can pervade our every thought, leaving us stuck in our tracks, unable to achieve what we are capable of. How do we break out of this?
Ode Magazine featured an article on the power of positive thinking late last year. In it, they discuss how to work toward changing your thoughts from positive to negative:
How does one change one’s thinking from old negative tapes to positive, healthy thinking? Placing positive affirmations in plain view is a great way to begin. Tape some affirmations to your bathroom mirror, refrigerator, car, and office. These affirmations are reminders that you are in control of your thoughts—and thoughts can be changed. Be aware; watch your thoughts throughout the day, knowing that you are more than your brain, and in fact, are the one in the driver’s seat.
Positive affirmations can take different forms, but I prefer to always keep them framed in the positive, present tense. “I am” statements are wonderful! “I am” strong, beautiful, confident, smart, creative, etc. Fill in your “I am” statement for the areas in your life where you wish to consciously shift your thinking patterns.
This can be a very challenging task. After all, you’re trying to change the way you think by thinking about it. To help get you started, Ode offers up some starter affirmations. Here are my three favorite:
- I value who I am.
- I accept responsibility for all decisions I make in life.
- There are beautiful things happening in my life daily.
If you’re a parent, a great benefit of this exercise is that you are modeling positive thought and action for your kids. How do you think Jessica, in the video above, came to do this affirmation? She speaks of love and appreciation for all those things around her. If a 4-year-old can do it, why can’t you?